It would be great if the image to the left was not true...more along the fairy tale wedding you see below that. But let's be honest. Grooms are a nightmare to involve in any wedding planning.







So how do you get the one person who could care less to be interested? Chances are you aren't going to. Find key points that the groom can help with. My fiance is in charge of his guys, had a large say in the cake, and wants a say in the music. But he doesn't care about the bridesmaid dresses or flowers or table settings. Find a balance that makes both of you happy...and don't stress if he doesn't know the difference between a tiger or calla lily.

LINK OF THE DAY:
Here is a great resource for the troubled groom...its called The Plunge. This website has advise for men about planning bachelor parties, groomsman and bestman duties, and how to understand what YOU are going through. Take a look and this may even help you understand his point-of-view.